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My Money Sorted: Natalie

27 February 2025
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A bit about Natalie: Natalie moved to Aotearoa New Zealand from the UK 11 years ago. Now, home is with her husband, daughter and beloved black labrador in Tāmaki Makaurau Auckland’s Hibiscus Coast, while she works for Te Ara Ahunga Ora Retirement Commission on the Sorted at Work financial capability programme.

What’s the best money advice you’ve ever been given?

My parents have always been an inspiration to me in terms of how they manage their finances, and taught me that youre more likely to achieve your goals in a relationship if you and your partner are on the same page. For me, this can be a challenge, because my husbands more of a spender than I am and not as organised when it comes to planning ahead or saving up for specific things he wants, like new golf clubs, because that’s what he feels our savings account is for. We make it work by having open and honest conversations and realigning our goals.

Are you a spender or a saver?

I’m a major saver! I used to be a spender, to the point of having credit card and store card debt, but now I feel like I get more of a high from seeing a healthy bank balance than I do from shopping. When I do spend money, it tends to be more on experiences than materialistic things.

What’s been your proudest money moment?  

Cutting our mortgage term down by more than half. When I realised how much interest we’d be paying over a 30-year term, we decided to sacrifice a few luxuries and instead prioritise paying off our debt as quickly as possible. The key for us is not allowing lifestyle creep if we get a pay rise, so instead of getting used to spending more money because it’s there, we review how much of it we actually need to spend, and how much of it should go towards the mortgage or be invested. 

“You’re more likely to achieve your goals in a relationship if you and your partner are on the same page.”

What makes you feel sorted when it comes to your money?  

Being organised. Ive set up several different bank accounts for bills, and the exact amount of money goes into each one every time we get paid. Because everything is automated, we don’t even need to think about it – we just have to remember to review our expenses occasionally to make sure we’re not paying for things we don’t need. 

What money beliefs have you inherited from your whānau?  

When I was growing up, my dad used to say,Don’t buy what you can’t afford. That might seem obvious to some, but with all the buy now pay later options these days, it’s easy to fall into the trap of paying a bit each week. I did that in my early 20s, but I think I’m one of those people who needs to learn the hard way, and once I got myself out of debt I realised I never wanted to be in that situation again and changed my money habits dramatically. 

If your bank account could talk, what would it say to you right now?   

“You’ve come a long way, keep it up.” I used to be a mess with my finances. I’d hang out for payday every fortnight, using my credit card because I’d overspent on luxuries and couldn’t afford the essentials. I didn’t know what payments for what bills were coming out of my account when, and I never planned for my big expenses, even though I knew they were coming. Over the years, I’ve refined my banking system, but it took a long time to get to this point, and it’s a work in progress for sure. 

When you think about your retirement, what do you see?  

I’d like to make sure I can still travel, so I’m working hard on my retirement plan to make that possible, but overall I see a simple yet active retirement. Much of what I enjoy beach walks, hikes, bike rides doesn’t involve spending money, and my hobbies might change over the years, but with everything our beautiful backyard has to offer, I think I can keep myself busy! 

If youd like to join the conversation and share your own experiences with money, wed love to hear from you. Scroll down to find the links to our social media platforms, click through to send us a short introductory message and well get back to you with all the details. Ngā mihi!

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